Love Brain Test
Clear-eyed — low
Liking someone doesn't reorganise your week
Your level
You can like a person and still pull your attention back when there's work to do. Whether they reply, whether they're warm, rarely decides how your day goes. That's not coldness — the centre of gravity is just still inside you.
Clear-eyed isn't indifferent. Say "I thought about you today" once in a while, so they know you care rather than don't.
In-depth read
What your level looks like
Most of your four scores sit low. You can like someone and still show up to work, see friends and push your plans forward; one message doesn't rewrite the day. People may read it as not being that into them — really you just keep feeling and acting on separate tracks.
What it costs
The upside: you're hard to drain, and rarely make decisions about a relationship you'll regret. The cost: you can seem distant. When they need reassurance you offer analysis; when they want to be needed, you're still explaining boundaries.
How to keep the sweetness
Make care concrete: not "I respect you" but "I kept Friday for you." Clear-eyed people get misread as indifferent, and one specific plan says more than ten reassurances.